Princeton v Yale. Please help me

etondad
Wed, 20 Apr 2011 01:23:15 +0000

If you went to boarding school then my advice may be different as you would have had the chance to develop an independent sense of self (sorry I am a Kohutian analyst ) but if you have lived home then often it is time to stretch your wings-- even more importantly to discover that when you get into a bit of hot water that you can bail your self out and will be ok. Unless you are the unusual kid that can truly make the psychological break even though it is so easy to call and say you will be bringing over the wash and how about a home cooked meal then a large past of the college experience which is to fail and discover that life does not end will be lost.

That said, I have know professors’ kids who have done well–but they and their parents adhere to very strict ground rules.