rec form: student's citizenship

D_yer_Maker
Tue, 08 Jan 2008 09:08:00 +0000

In that case you’re just highlighting a faux pas. I think sending in timely thank you notes helps…though barely. I think not sending one in is outcome-neutral. Sending one in 3 months late comes across as neurotic.

If you have a reason to communicate again – a good reason, not a contrived one – write and include a sentiment expressing gratitude for the interview along with the other, primary message that you need to communicate.

I can’t imagine a school not accepting an otherwise desirable candidate with a missing “thank you” note being the dispositive factor that has another candidate leap frog past you for the very last place in the class. Not only is it a minor consideration…the odds that your file will also be teetering on the brink of admission just seems to be mathematically improbable. Don’t sweat it…but do remember the lesson that it feels better when you make a habit of being prompt with thank-you notes. Even if it’s for a cement-like fruit cake that Aunt Hortense brought to Thanksgiving dinner.