Rejected from UCSD? Now what?

collegemom16
Sun, 16 Mar 2008 18:49:50 +0000

As a parent, I realize that in a few months my son will be in college. It is wise for me to assist him in any way I can in finding the best college fit so that he can thrive and be happy. I suggest you explain this to your parents and ask for their assistance in helping you choose wisely (bring them on your team). If you make up a list of pros and cons of each school (include some academic information) you will show them you are approaching this from a mature perspective. Ask what they think is important and add it to your list. After reviewing the list with them, ask them to let you go and visit and make an overnight stay. I think most parents will realize that it is good for you to begin stretching your wings a little and understand your need to visit away from them so that you can experience what it is like to live on the campus. Also they will know that the college choice made is truly your own. If they are the nervous type encourage them to travel with you and stay in a nearby inn so that you can call should you experience any problems.