Roomate troubles/ advice

cababe97
Sun, 09 Oct 2016 22:08:04 +0000

Hi guys,
I am having some trouble with my roomate at boarding school and need advice. From what I understand, most schools would have sent out a roomate survey with questions such as “are you messy, do you sleep in…” But for some reason my school didn’t. My roomate and I are complete opposites. She is very outgoing but very serious as well. She was an athlete recruited by the school. I am more reserved around people I don’t know but very outgoing in front of people that I’m comfortable with. All in all, we are just very different people. She is a bit cocky and tends to make me uncomfortable. She imitates things I’ve done and said in front of her friends while I’m in the room. I try and talk to her but it is a one sided conversation as she doesn’t want to talk to me much. She talks to everybody in the dorm, except me. She has repeated told me to “not talk to her about my stuff cause I don’t really want to know.” I have never been anything but nice to her and the only thing I could think of that might hug her is that I am a little messy. I need some advice to get through the year… And even maybe make this girl a little bit of a friend. Any help is appreciated. Thanks so much!