Roommate question

BrownParent
Tue, 10 Feb 2015 07:21:12 +0000

You wake her up at night, she wakes you up in the morning. But it sounds like she is trying to be a bit tit for tat about it. She doesn’t get to schedule when you get up. So I would go into the mediation meeting with the things you are doing/going to do to try to accommodate her at night. Come in quietly, etc. It isn’t reasonable to go to bed because she is going to bed, but what will you do to try to accommodate her and disturb her as little as possible. And ask her what she can then do in the morning to do the same accommodation not disturb you and that you want to hear her recognize that you, not her sets your hours, within reason.It wouldn’t be reasonable for you to expect her to tip toe around all day, but limited to AM for her and PM for you. Now you are the reasonable one. However it just sounds like incompatible roommates in terms of hours.