Roommates Boyfriend is always at the apartment. Help?

dadof4kids
Wed, 12 Sep 2018 14:47:16 +0000

I think OP is completely in the right, at least based on the facts she gave us.

I also think the roommate will wig out and insist that if her bf can’t stay then OP boyfriend can’t either. It also sounds like OP isn’t confrontational. When one party is and the other isn’t, the confrontational one tends to overpower the discussion in an emotional situation like this. Logic and compromise don’t always win the day.

Not sure that the right answer is. The fair one is that he pays rent, but if he plays Fortnite as his full time job I don’t see that happening