Sad to say I have given up

Cashel
Tue, 02 Aug 2011 19:44:06 +0000

Momma-three,
I am so sorry that things have turned out this way for you and your family. It sounds like you did everything you could (and more) to try to suppport your daughter and get her the help she needs. You can make every effort to understand the person and their illness, but in the end, you can’t sacrifice the entire family unit for one person. As the child of a person with BPD, only recently diagnosed, I can attest that the wounds that occurred through this relationship are long lasting and color every aspect of my life. I only wish she had chosen to get help like BPDgirl. Without a doubt, the final years of her life would be very different than they are playing out.
I will be thinking of your family in the coming weeks and hope that all of you begin to find some peace.