Sensitive kind people unite!

emeraldkity4
Sun, 22 May 2011 18:43:50 +0000

*Or a person who criticizes everything that others wear, say, and do behind their back, and yet others try desperately to be their friend. *

I must say I have never IRL known anyone like that.
I think the way to treat rude people if you must deal with them is assume best intentions. ( even if you know otherwise)
Telling someone else they look ridiculous is a wasted statement IMO.
They already know what they are wearing & an observation that is meant to make them uncomfortable just points out that you don’t have anything better to do than comment on others clothing.
I think a good response might be " thank you for inquiring, but I am quite comfortable I assure you."