Sensitive kind people unite!

EPTR
Sun, 22 May 2011 22:41:27 +0000

Not everyone is trying to be accepted by them. Watch carefully. You will see some that don’t care and feel good about themselves. These are the others, like you, that recognize the toxic behavior. I don’t agree that these people always “win”. What are they winning? If you can work on the part of yourself that feels diminished by these peoples treatment, you will be the winner.

I can’t wait until you try the “why would you say that?” response! Tell us what happens when you do.

The other day I was with someone at work (so I had no choice). She is someone who is often blunt and rude but pretends she is joking. She said something rude to me and I said “That was rude”. She backpeddled immediately. When you confront the behavior the power shifts from them to you.