Sensitive kind people unite!

MomLive
Mon, 23 May 2011 08:28:25 +0000

I’m not sure why I care so much about how unfair it is that mean people triumph.



But why would you think that means they have triumphed? IMO, it means nothing other than they have the attention of a few other misguided and possibly mean-spirited people. You know the saying…‘birds of a feather stick together.’ People like that have nothing to offer you and you are better off staying away. One of the hardest things to do is to figure out how you, as an individual, define success but everyone eventually needs to do it. It will clear up a lot of this angst because you will realize that ‘being popular’ is not a measure of one’s success. For many people, being a good friend, having people that you love and love you back, being a good parent, financial stability, etc. are the true measures of success. Not how much money you make, the car you drive, how ‘good’ you look, etc. Those are superficial things that are important to superficial people.