Sensitive kind people unite!

cartera45
Mon, 23 May 2011 14:34:28 +0000

If I were to say that her “followers” are liable to gang up on me!



So what. What can they do - you don’t fear physical harm do you?

You absolutely must learn to stand up for yourself. Practice if you must. Stand in front of the mirror and say - “Do you find it necessary to be unkind?” “I find it extremely inappropriate that you just asked/said that.” “That comment hurt my feelings and I’m sure you didn’t intend to do that.” and then throw in “Do you kiss you mother with that mouth?” just for good measure.

You must also teach your daughters to stand up for themselves - not in an aggressive way. Sometimes standing up for yourself means removing yourself from the situation and ignoring the unkind words. That takes the power away and that is what this is all about.