Should I feel hurt?

staringintospace
Sat, 01 Aug 2009 00:18:29 +0000

I know this is long, but please help me out.

So, let’s just say there are 3 chicks - Sally, Franny, and Annie.

Sally, Franny, and Annie are all friends. I hang out with Sally on a regular basis outside of school, but not necessarily AT school. Franny and I hang out at school (and sometimes outside of school). Annie is someone who I’ve only talked to a couple of times. We’re just acquaintances. I’m not really friends with her, but like I said before, Annie is friends with Sally and Franny.

One day, Franny invited Sally, Annie, and me to go see a movie together. We did. I thought it went well. I talked to Franny and Sally as usual (since they’re my good friends, obviously) and talked to Annie too (even though I don’t know her that well). We shared some laughs. We weren’t together that long, but there wasn’t any awkwardness. None of us had hung out together before (I usually hang out with SALLY and FRANNY separately, but I’m not really friends with Annie, so obviously I haven’t) but it was still decently fun.

So, today I viewed Sally’s Facebook (whom I chat with a lot HAPPILY about the plans we have for this weekend). It appeared she was having a convo w/ Annie (once again, the one whom I don’t know too well) about our outing. So, out of curiosity, I looked at what she said to Annie:

“blah blah blah it was fun, yada yada. you, me, franny, so-and-so (not me, but a girl they both know)? SOON.”

This other girl that she mentioned in the sentence is also someone like Annie - someone Franny and Sally and Annie know well but whom I don’t know well.

That’s basically, in a nutshell, what she said. Totally didn’t even include me in the sentence at all about hanging out again. I’m starting to wonder why she wouldn’t want to include me. Is it something personal? Because Sally talks to me normally over Facebook. I thought the outing went well, even though I’m not familiar with Annie.

Maybe she just didn’t include me b/c I don’t know Annie? What do you think?