Should I have an open relationship?

peter_parker_1
Sun, 18 Apr 2010 20:21:53 +0000

We must refer to them by their nationalities because its their defining characteristic. Just like when you are referencing a black guy you say… so yeah this black guy I know… you get the idea. Plus, it makes them sound exotic and hot-like. Erm, the persian girl and all that.

But uh, to answer the Op’s question---- your dillemma is as old as time. You’re in a relationship, but you still want to screw around. No man has ever faced this problem before!! lol.

Well, you’re not going to like my answer, but 99% of the time you can’t date both girls. Just imagine letting your girlfriend date someone else along with you. You wouldn’t ever, or if you did, you’d only be “putting up” with it - you wouldn’t like it at all.

Jealously and feelings of inadequacy will always come up. So no---- you can’t see both girls at the same time long term, really – unless you’re doing it all sneaky like, and that may lead to consequences later (well, maybe - if they find out).

Basically, pick one.