Should I transfer from Pomona College?

josephstep
Wed, 02 Jun 2010 13:59:39 +0000

Here is my story…

When I was 18 years old I packed up all my stuff and moved to Claremont, California from Waco, Texas where I entered Pomona College in 2008 as a freshman on a full-ride $200,000 scholarship. Even though I worked very hard in high school to get into a school like Pomona, I still could not believe that I was accepted. I worked for many months on my college admissions essays, did an interview with a Pomona alum, obtained two teacher recommendations, 3.9 GPA ranked #5/226, mock trial team etc. Since I come from a predominately low-income, family most of them grew jealous of me and were very negative about me going off to California for college. When that happened I slowly grew depressed(also with the pressure of being an African-American student) and it reflected in my grades(looking back I was a bit too sensitive). I was placed on academic probation my second semester at Pomona and was on the brink of having to withdraw from the college. In the middle of the semester, my roommate noticed that I wasn’t sleeping, eating, anxious, and not attending class. So the school sent me to a mental hospital. I was in that mental hospital for two weeks and it was one of the scariest moments in my life. My mom had to come get me and Pomona paid for our flight, motel, and gave her a rent car.

I was placed on involuntary medical leave from Pomona and had to return to Texas with only 1 semester at Pomona completed.

Yet things got a HELL of a lot worse…

My plan was to attend my local community college for a year(completed a semester 16hrs) and then return to Pomona in the fall 2010.
but on November 12, 2009 my brother shot my father, a local firefighter, in the head and set fired to his house(my father doesn’t live with us). My father died from the gunshot wound and being burned beyond recognition. My brother suffered burns on 75% of his body and spent time at Parkland memorial hospital before being arrested on capital murder charges. There was strong media coverage of the story(it was even on CNN) and front page of the local paper. My brother says his father used to sexually abuse him. I believe him because my brother used to molest me when we were kids. The trial is set to begin this month…

My brother faces a life sentence without parole.

Should I still pursue Pomona after all of this crap or just go to a college in Texas even though I have to spend another year at a community college?

What does everyone think! I feel like my family is ruining my life!