Significant Others for the Holidays

cromette
Sat, 29 Dec 2012 23:22:02 +0000

I cannot IMAGINE excluding my D’s beau from ALL pictures at any event in our house. I hope no one thought that I meant that would be okay. That’s just plain rude. I’m so sorry that happened to you Thumper.

I consider her BF a pretty important person and an honored guest. We do a family portait type picture, which I wouldn’t want him in - but in all the candid shots of the day? And special pictures of the two of them? OF COURSE I want his picture!!!

It would be unusual in our family for a relationship to carry on for seven years without a marriage - but if it did, I would just probably decide after a couple of years that this was a bit more “official” than just a BF, and I’d probably start including him…I dunno.