Some questions about Engagement etiquette

romanigypsyeyes
Tue, 06 Oct 2015 02:39:08 +0000

@Snowme, we made it clear at every possible juncture that I was keeping my last name. And yet, it didn’t make a difference to a lot of people. It’s quite frustrating :(.

I agree with you completely, though. Honestly, I just use first names when at all possible. I’d rather offend someone by being too informal than by making an assumption about last names.