STRICT PARENTS- any advice helps

kiriii
Tue, 10 Feb 2015 09:25:17 +0000

You’re too old for your parents to have that amount of control over your life. You have to weigh your relationships with the burden you have to take to maintain them - and in my opinion, your burden outweighs the relationship. I would seriously have a talk with them after you move out (so as to not stir up an argument that could have an immediate negative effect on your life while you’re still living with them) about it if they keep their hand in your life like that. You don’t have to cut them out of your life, but you have to be the one to push them to give you more independence. Be calm, be understanding, be patient, but put your own life above what they want if you continue having this sort of conflict.