The boyfriend back home

saintfan
Wed, 16 Sep 2015 02:39:12 +0000

I would think about bringing up the visits in light of not being an imposition on her roommate. Have a politeness and courtesy talk and encourage her to set ground rules for visitors with her roommate. If he is visiting frequently and staying over that can easily become a point of friction where she would be at fault. Approach it as a manners thing and it will be apparent that you know that he likely stays. A lot of roommate drama starts with a boyfriend or girlfriend who is persistently staying over.