The boyfriend back home

Overtheedge
Wed, 16 Sep 2015 07:05:36 +0000

I don’t get the impression from OP’s post that she is concerned about her D’s sex life. She seems concerned that the BF is not a good match and that the relationship may negatively impact her D’s grades or college experience. I would have those concerns too.

OP, your D likely failed to mention the BF’s visit because she knows you don’t approve of him. If she knows that you respect that it’s her decision and you won’t judge or give unsolicited advice, she may feel more comfortable talking to you about the relationship. I know that’s easier said than done (at least for me). I’m working on holding my tongue and letting things run their course with my D in a similar situation. Feel free to PM me if you need to vent:).

@nottelling - great post.