Throwing in the towel...

Abstractedness
Fri, 02 Sep 2011 01:44:01 +0000

hypsmc42- Your post may not be in the “law school forum” category, but I won’t complain because I’m not in the “law school” category myself (reading out of interest). I do, however, feel somewhat qualified to respond to your post… You seem to be disappointed and somewhat jaded in your search, and you may even be getting bitter. Don’t do this because no one really wants to be around a bitter, angry person. The best things in life really do take time. So be patient, stay occupied, and get involved. Most importantly, stay positive because your negative attitude towards yourself is not helping. If you’re not feeling happy, pretend like you are. Fake it till you make it! Go where girls are. Go with your friends, because having friends around will make you feel better and look cooler. It may seem like some girls are attracted to jerks. They aren’t. If it seems like they are, it means they have personal problems and getting involved with jerks is a nice distraction. Some girls think they are attracted to jerks and then decide that they aren’t after finding one. Really, if you’re an intelligent, nice guy that has his passions and interests in life, there’s no reason why you can’t eventually find a nice girl that you’re attracted to and vice-versa. You may even want to see a therapist to help you learn how to stop beating yourself up. But don’t give up on your search for the right girl!