<p>Yes, thank you for mentioning it - I’ve read through many of those discussions and don’t want to start up that subject! </p>
<p>I think one thing about being a “theater kid” is that they get a taste of the experience of competition, about being chosen or not chosen, of dealing with these feelings over and over again. I think I’m already getting used to it, too - hopefully we’ll be in a healthy place when the college decisions come out.</p>
<p>The stories above are a reminder that the story doesn’t end when they move into school. Having an older child in college, plus numerous nieces, nephews, children of friends, plus remembering my own experience, and that of my friends and peers (just like everyone), I’m prepared that no amount of research or planning can prevent disappointment. I admire anyone who has the strength to transfer or take time off. We’ll just try to find out what we can, and trust her gut, and be ready to making a change if needed.</p>
<p>There are so many variables, and these are still young kids.</p>