transfer student loneliness

emma2010
Wed, 12 Oct 2011 23:09:47 +0000

first of all i am not a very socialize person. i am not afraid to talk to people, but if they dont reply i cant keep the conversation.
so i went high school in a different country and i attended community college here in united states. i spent 2 years in community college and i had some friends there, but the thing is i got different “friends” every semester and we dont talk any more after semester ends…
i transfered to this state university this fall. i joined many clubs and i did my best. but the thing is almost everyone has their high school friends here and they seem dont care about making new friends. i dont want to be too “pushy” or “creeper” or always stick with them.
i want to know how you guy think? how you guys deal with this loneliness? will it get better in the second year? i feel lonelier and lonelier day by day now…
by the way the school im going to is a commuter school and im one of the commuters… but i basically stay at school from 9am to 6pm. most time by myself though…i tried to find someone to study together but they either have class or have to go home…