Transferring! Girl! What to do?!

Partyrocker
Mon, 15 Oct 2012 12:56:45 +0000

So i’ve Iived in SoCal my whole life. I’m looking to transfer out and I want to leave CA. See what else is out there, and gain some independence. A friend of mine told me about the school she was at and highly recommended it. It’s in the Midwest so it’s a ways away. I visited it and I like the school, the people, the program, the campus is alright, but not bad. All her friends and people we met talked highly of the school, and wanted me to attend. I really like my friend that already attends there. We’ve been friends for awhile, and I’ve made it sorta clear that I’m interested in being more than friends, and I’m pretty sure she’s interested to, but she doesn’t want to commit unless I go there. Which I can
understand. I’m interested to see what may happen between us, but I don’t want to go just for a girl. But I’m also sorta hesitant to attend.
Sorry it’s a long post but if anyone has some good advice, I’d like a few perspectives.