Virginity and Going Away To College

LIMOMOF2
Fri, 21 Dec 2007 06:36:13 +0000

Whatapainthisis - your daughter’s friend is obviously crying out for attention. She’s looking for help, and unfortunately, none of the adults in her life seem capable of giving her the help she needs. Sex is not the issue and neither is drinking/drugs - she wants to know that she is loved and cared for. The sex and drugs are just being used to draw attention to herself. I feel very sorry for that young lady.

mythmom, your D sounds like she will be fine. It’s great that you trust her to make her own decisions - I’m the same way with my D (although my D is only 15, I think she has a lot of common sense and I trust her to do what is right for her). As far as the sex thing goes - my D is only 15, and I do think that is young. OTOH, she has had the same boyfriend for quite awhile, so I do worry about it a little, just because 15 is so young (and the BF is 17).