Wedding Reception "Music"?

Debruns
Thu, 28 Jun 2012 18:19:16 +0000

I don’t think the volume after a certain decibel really matters. If someone likes Metal or Alternative or Country for that matter, it’s their day,but it’s just being somewhat considerate. You invited a group of people, you gladly take the gift, you should be a little considerate, at least early on.

I know some older folks that wont give anymore because of the shabby way they were treated at showers, weddings, but mainly with not acknowledging them. I had my children writing simple thank yous at young ages, I didn’t care what anyone else did and I would be appalled if my children were rude enough to take a gift and not give a thank you at their wedding or shower.
One “grandma” after leaving a wedding because it was all alternative loud music, told me she gave extra to her first grandchild, it wasn’t easy for her and she never got a thank you. I told her she didn’t have to give him anything again, but she looked so sad.