What exactly is "slut shaming", and why is it so wrong??

momofthreeboys
Sun, 15 Jan 2017 20:27:10 +0000

I think anyone that is being called that by someone should either brush it off as “they are crazy” or needs to take a look in the mirror. I have to admit that there are young women…not many…that are a huge turn-off because they are always screaming and yelling and angry about something and sometimes not listening to anyone but their own voices. I’ve seen them on campuses and my boys talk about it. I know I wouldn’t want to associate with a guy with anger issues or would never listen to anyone but the voice inside his own head or was manipulative. If someone were screaming and yelling at you everytime you crossed a campus you might hurl an invective. News flash to young women…these days young men age 30 are more “clued in” than ever before, they just came through K-12 public school education for the most part. They are more enlightened about birth control and more willing to use condoms. They totally expect to be part of a two-income household and compete with women for jobs and they expect to hold up their share of child raising and household responsibilities and just like the angry women, are simply looking for companionship in my opinion looking down upon my three twenty something males two of whom are sadly women wary and I really hope I didn’t contribute to that.

Today’s feminism promotes women to be angry. If you’re a woman and you’re not angry, you are either seen as stupid or not checking your privilege enough. It’s rather sad. So no, I don’t think anyone should slut-sham or badmouth anyone…but if it happens to you, blow it off or check yourself especially if you are white, educated college woman…there are ills and inequities in our country but not to the magnitude that privileged college women can even fathom.