What to do after getting cheated on?

Sikorsky
Mon, 10 Jan 2011 17:56:41 +0000

I’m kind of moralistic about sexual infidelity, so I agree that neither of them deserves a second chance.

On the other hand, it’s your life and not mine, so I would add that if, some time AFTER all the crying and the viewing of “Forgetting Sarah Marshall,” you decide that you actually want to give either of them a second chance, there isn’t necessarily anything wrong with that. It’s totally up to you. If some day you think there’s good reason for you to do so, fine. If you never think there’s good reason for you to do so, also fine. But unless you’ve withheld a major secret, you don’t owe either of them a damn thing.