What's your dream college?

Sikorsky
Tue, 11 Dec 2012 08:49:28 +0000

[W]hy not talk about dream schools!



Because it’s inviting disappointment.

It makes a lot more sense for students to generate a list that includes a number of universities or colleges where they think they could be successful and happy, and apply. Then wait and see what happens. Where do you get in? Do some places offer you better need-based or merit aid than others? Select the one that seems to be offering you the best combination of price, academics and quality of life.

Sometimes high school students do fall in love with a particular college or university. It’s bound to happen. But it does lead to disappointment:



I think I’d apply for Marymount Manhattan because I love the sound of their theatre major and the thought of living in NY for 4 years! But sadly I don’t have a spare $50,000+ a year to spend.



I can’t see any sensible reason to encourage people to go out seeking this same pang of regret, and then nurturing it.

Good Lord, I’ve gotten old. And no fun.