Why do cool kids dislike nerds and introverted people?

pirate15
Tue, 19 Jun 2012 01:49:09 +0000

There is no such thing as cool people in the college world man. Sure there are people that think their crap doesnt stink, but you know what karma hits those people at some point, most of them shape up eventually. Trust me I was a bit nerdy in high school, didnt really go out much, not alot of close friends. In college I was 6 hours away from home and I got to start over, I met alot of people and made alot of friends. I went out/partied every weekend, one of my best friends that i met was someone that would have messed with me majorly in HS. The lesson of the story is, that cool kids you refer to have problems too, we are all human. They worry about being accepted and loved like everyone else. They worry about their family and grades and everything, just like you…they just choose to handle it differently. They are great people man, they just have to wear a mask because they are concerned that the real them wont be good enough for their friends. But to help you out, a little empathy goes a long way man, talk to people. Sit next to a girl in every other class, genuinly act interested in them(but only intrested in one or two lol) and strike up a convo with the guys too…invite them to lift or to just play video games or something. Remember take the time out to get to know them and be yourself and care for them, some people will not like you, but most will if you just you know talk to them and take the time to be a friend. You would be surprised about how alike you are with someone youd consider cool man.

Getting off my soapbox!