Why do we find silences during conversation awkward/uncomfortable

shyloh
Mon, 03 Jan 2011 19:38:44 +0000

Something is only awkward if you make it awkward. Seriously think about it. If you don’t think something is awkward, then it’s not awkward is it? Most people feel the need to fill the silence. If this doesn’t work for you, and you still find a situation awkward or uncomfortable, then ask whoever you’re talking to the color of their toothbrush. It’s completely random, which makes it all the more fun. It is also a great way to break the ice when meeting someone. Both of these things have worked greatly for me, and help to become less awkward in social situations.