Why would a girl do this

Kjw117
Mon, 28 Jan 2013 23:12:16 +0000

So this girl and I who are neighbors always seemed to get along great. I really liked her until today. In fact, I liked her for a few months and I’d make efforts to ask her to chill, but she always had a valid excuse. We still talked a fair amount about stuff and were pretty good friends. So, this weekend while she was home I mentioned that I did something on a gym machine that she told me she could do (hardest level on a machine) so I told her jokingly that i pulled it off and that i dont think she could do the same in a joking way. She wrote back a friendly, long answer joking that she was just kidding and that I was making her want to try to do what I did and put a smiley face. So I wrote back a little response (Yeah I figured you were kidding after about 30 seconds on there… We should go to the gym tomorrow if ur back and see who can last longer)… No answer all the next day.

We’re in the same class and when I saw her she looked away really fast and talked to someone else… Then she left for the bathroom and avoided eye contact with me, but after the class she gave a sort of awkward wave and smiled. To those who might think she likes me, I can tell that she doesn’t. I think she used to, but I never made a move. She also wasn’t as friendly as usual in the hallway today in residence.

The only thing I’m thinking of is that she didn’t get the text and that I was acting weird. Another possibility is that she sent something back and I didn’t recieve it. Someone else sent something that just didn’t come into my phone and they double texted asking if i got their message.

I’m a really big hockey enthusiast and I actually found that when I would think about how much I liked this girl, it would take my mind and energy away from hockey. Today when I played, I was flying on the ice, and I felt happy and not weighed down by wondering if she liked me or not.

Few questions though:

Why would she blow me off like that? That’s pretty mean the way she did it. She could have just said she was sick or something (she even is!)… I don’t want to ask her about this because I’m over it already. Was just curious if any girls have done something similar when a friend sort of casually asked her out via text. I’ve asked her to chill in person every other time