Wish I could force the decision

ariesathena
Fri, 22 Apr 2005 14:28:27 +0000

There is a big difference between asking questions or making suggestions, and downright nagging. The first two have a productive goal (helping the kid out and being a parent), while the last one is just useless. Has nothing to do with “letting go” or independence or whatever - nagging and carping is a big vote of no confidence in the kid.