Worth the trip?

arrdad
Fri, 03 Apr 2009 17:45:59 +0000

Congrats on being accepted to two great MT programs. You must be very talented! (Also thanks for your previous help via PM.)

It’s impossible for anyone to really appreciate the full dilemma you find yourself in. Tough deal. But at least you have two wonderful options to choose from.

As a parent, there a million things to consider. Most of us want to do everything possible to allow our children to follow their dreams.

In a perfect world, money is not an issue, and you make the decision based on what is the best school for your desired career/educational path. But I must say, if money is even remotely a consideration, then the “right” answer becomes much more difficult.

If Hartt is better for you, then many parents would sacrifice to allow you to go there. But if the distinction between the programs isn’t that great, then it really does make sense to save your family a bucketful of money and matriculate at OCU.

If your parents are like my wife and me, they will want to see every possible performance that you get to participate in. Clearly, that would be infinitely easier from 20 minutes away. Traveling from OKC to Hartford will be an ordeal, regardless of the price. Also, you may have other family, friends, and fans in your community that will love to see you perform in college, many of which may not be able to justify an expensive trip.

Another thing to consider is your level of familiarity with the faculty at OCU. You have a huge head start as they know your talents, and clearly they appreciate them. If they are awarding you with $60k in scholarships, they will want to see their money well spent, which could translate to good opportunities as you progress through the program.

Please take all my comments with a grain of salt, as I have no idea of all the factors involved in your decision. My thoughts come purely from a parent that is trying to give a practical take on what I might do if faced with a similar challenge.

Most of us parents can only dream of our children being faced with the great opportunities that lie ahead for you. Good luck!