Yes, I'm asking this. In college. So what? Please Help

killmyentourage
Sun, 20 Nov 2011 15:32:35 +0000

If you feel like you already have to find ways to “make” someone notice you, it’s going to inevitably fail somewhere down the line. You shouldn’t ever feel like you have to force something into existence. If it’s meant to be, then any sort of relationship shouldn’t be started under false or somewhat manipulative pretenses. Besides, you only said that you and him have exchanged small talk so I get the feeling that your “crush” is solely based on the fact that you think he’s hot. At this point, it’s not like you have anything to lose. If playing games is your thing, then go ahead and try to find ways to make him notice you, but personally I think that’s a huge waste of time unless you’re really lacking in certain departments (no offense).

By all means, ask him to kick it (even as friends) and get to know each other but then STOP WORRYING. Do you think he’s going to be sitting on his phone for 20 minutes trying to decide between putting a smiley face in a text or not? No, so you shouldn’t either. Girls care way too much before they’ve actually developed something and that certainly freaks people out.

The best advice I ever heard was none at all: JUST GO WITH IT.
[and stop caring so much]

-From a fellow female

Btw lmao @6. Def happens.