Yes, I'm asking this. In college. So what? Please Help

iSpike
Tue, 22 Nov 2011 01:43:41 +0000

Speaking as a guy, I have two scenarios from my life:

There was a girl I liked, and I never made any kind of move. That’s been one of my biggest regrets for a while now, and I can’t do anything about it until she breaks up with her boyfriend. If that never happens, I may have missed the best opportunity I ever had.

OTOH, there was a girl that was nice, and attractive, that I never really noticed. I began to see in retrospect that she had been making hints (both subtle and not so much) for months that I never picked up on, and she eventually gave up and found someone else.

Point 1: Don’t miss an opportunity.
Point 2: Guys are dense.

Conclusion: If he’s too shy to make a move, and you really do like him, the least you can do is say so. Maybe not, “Hey, (name), do you want to go out?”, but at least give him some thing he can recognize as attraction (some of the other recommendations are great in that respect), and if he doesn’t like you, that’s his loss.