Yes, I'm asking this. In college. So what? Please Help

quicksilver
Thu, 08 Dec 2011 22:58:31 +0000

One perspective I would like to put out there…not sure if young people these days think along this line anymore…As a girl, I always thought that I should keep silent if I like a guy. I thought that if he likes me, he would not hesitate to tell me one day. I only realize now that guys don’t get mixed signals and that he probably feared of being embarrassed.
Back in my undergrad, I just didn’t want to tell him of my feelings for him because if he didn’t like me, then he would’ve been very disturbed by me indeed. So for his sake, I restrained myself. Oh well, I still like him, but he’s hundreds of miles away now and I’ll probably never see him again. But time heals all wounds. @ SadBear, best wishes to you!