Young Marriage

momocarly
Tue, 20 Jul 2021 00:29:02 +0000

Ok if they are asking for advice fine. If not let them work it out.

My son and his gf are in the same situation. My son finished undergrad in 3 years and is about to start his second year of vet school. His gf just graduated and is taking a gap year and then starting PA school in June at a different school. They have been dating for 4 years. They have decided to get engaged next summer and then plan to get married 2 years later when they graduate. She will follow him on internships and residency. Originally she was going to med school but decided that was her mom’s dream not hers. They want to wait until they can support themselves without help from parents and that is when they feel would be the best. We support their decisions and think they have thought through it. So one way of doing it. (My husband and I married the day before undergrad graduation and he went to law school away later, we have been married 40 years).