I'm from NJ and am probably going to end up at a private dorm for a variety of reasons, but would like to find one with a more laidback atmosphere. From what I've hear about Towers, I'd like to find one that is the opposite of that. I've heard good things about Langdon but am not sure if a lot of freshmen end up there. Statesider is also appealing because its mostly freshman and seems to have a better atmosphere than Towers. Anyone have any advice?