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one thing i've always wondered how people start out is, when you first start out, you usually have to volunteer and work for free. but breaking in requires your full you, meaning lots of time. and especially in expensive cities like NYC, if you don't have a safety bank to fall back on (rich spouse, parents, etc.,), it seems impossible, or extremely hard. it probably isn't the place for hermits/anit-socials either.