Welcome to College Confidential!

The leading college-bound community on the web

Sign Up For Free

Join for FREE, and start talking with other members, weighing in on community polls, and more.

Also, by registering and logging in you'll see fewer ads and pesky welcome messages (like this one!)

As a CC member, you can:

I want to have fun, but...i need help

bjt223bjt223 Posts: 402Registered User Member
edited February 2009 in College Life
I can't seem to open myself to be wild. I had been through parties, but everywhere I look everyone is either having fun or drinking. I want to join in the action, but can't get myself involve to wild activities because I'm either too shy or scare to do anything. When a girl was ( I think) staring me or try to dance with me, i choked and didn't move that much :( lol. So CCC, how can I get myself to have fun and let myself go?

PS: I'm not really a party animal, but once a while I want to be like myself and "unleash the beast" in me.
Post edited by bjt223 on

Replies to: I want to have fun, but...i need help

  • rusoboy23rusoboy23 Posts: 447Registered User Member
    Alcohol (10 char)
  • chris2k5chris2k5 Posts: 896Registered User Member
    :( No one is going to really care about what you do. Loosen up.
  • liberateliberate Posts: 390Registered User Member
    I'll second Alcohol as the solution.
  • S33DS33D Posts: 858Registered User Member
    I'll third it. Go for it! Don't binge though.
  • kindaslick89kindaslick89 Posts: 498Registered User Member
    Just do it, if it doesn't work out, atleast you won't regret not trying.
  • ansaransar Posts: 2,071Registered User Senior Member
    As drunk Brian in Family Guy said, "Lighten up, toots. It's a party!"

    So, basically, don't worry. If they're drunk, they won't remember your silly antics. :)
  • mcb52mcb52 Posts: 1,485Registered User Member
    you can actually get into parties and have girls actually want to dance at you?!
    *jealous* so what's the problem? my advice: chances are you'll never see her again, so don't worry about making a fool of yourself too much. unless it ends up online. then you're ****ed
  • lollybolollybo Posts: 776Registered User Member
    If you're really not having fun, you just might not be a party person. Oh, try going with your friends, that helps loosening things up.
  • maxellismaxellis Posts: 1,172Registered User Senior Member
    Get naked at a party. It's kinda a sink or swim method of having fun (it always works for me).
  • mcb52mcb52 Posts: 1,485Registered User Member
    ^ pics or it didn't happen
  • leah377leah377 Posts: 3,834Registered User Senior Member
    tequila tends to make clothes fall off..
  • bjt223bjt223 Posts: 402Registered User Member
    haha, i love everyone answer! I haven't drink yet, except being buzz. I think I should go for it and maybe I might end up in bed with someone I don't know. :Sigh: college experience, life to won't forget lol.
  • mcb52mcb52 Posts: 1,485Registered User Member
    ^ whoa be careful there, beer goggles can make it hard to determine gender..
  • maxellismaxellis Posts: 1,172Registered User Senior Member
    Whatever you do, don't call your ex girlfriend who you haven't talked to in the past 2 months at 3am and tell her that you can't stop thinking about her and you think her cheating on you with her current boyfriend wasn't that big of a deal (even though it totally was) and she should leave him to come back to you and you have gotten a lot better at satisfying women since then and will try to have more meaningful conversations with her in the future. In fact, it's probably just a good idea not to call anybody while you're at a party.
  • Mr. BojanglesMr. Bojangles Posts: 824Registered User Member
    shot glasses and mirrors
Sign In or Register to comment.