<p>Nice posts MITChris and Mikalye, thank you.</p>
<p>As a parent I glance at the chance me threads from time to time and just shake my head. I worry that this causes unnecessary stress in some kids.</p>
<p>Here is what we tell our kids: Do the very best you can in all aspects of your life, present yourself the very best you can, and come to terms with the fact that whether or not you are accepted is really out of your control. And above all, be very proud of what you have accomplished in 18 short years.</p>