Graduation time.
S2, whose college search prompted me to start this thread 6 years ago graduates from Elon in a few weeks. He has had a great educational experience, transitioning from a kid who was somewhat disinterested in hs to an engaged college student, and fitting in plenty of Jewish life including Hillel, Jewish fraternity membership and a Birthright trip. He texted me last night from a Shabbat dinner at the home of his former Hillel advisor to wish me a Shabbat Shalom. So, I am content. Mission accomplished.
I have decided to “graduate” along with him. While you may see me in the Parent Cafe occasionally, I am no longer in a place to give any college advice or suggestions. I hope this thread has been useful and fun. I thank each and every participant for their contributions. I hope new posters continue to use this thread as a forum for Jewish “B” students.
My final piece of advice is to enjoy your teen, share the college process with them in a calm manner and have fun with it! Yes, it is stressful at times, but keep in mind they look to you for cues, so your calm demeanor benefits the entire family.
Best of luck to you.
Rockvillemom