<p>Tspwt5, in answer to your question: This is an extremely difficult decision!! She thinks that she might like Stanford better (have not visited yet) however it looks like it might be $35,000 more money after four years. With Grad school probably in the future, we aren’t sure at this time if Stanford will be $35,000 better than Yale. I wish the financial aid packages were the same so money issues don’t come in to play!</p>