<p>ima, so much depends on how each school “usually” does things. I took my D on a number of unofficials and she never spent the night, though was offered a few. </p>
<p>She’s a college senior now, so my perspective on visits from the host point of view is much different. It’s somewhat of a big responsibility for athletes to host. They have to keep their charge safe, tucked in on time, and amused. If it’s finals week, mid-season, party season, etc., it can be a lot to ask to find a girl who can and will give up a night to take care of a high school junior. During regular official recruiting season, it’s a responsibility shared by the whole team. </p>
<p>I’d not push too hard for an overnight. Official visit time will be here soon, and that’s the key time to meet the team. Current seniors will be gone, the new freshmen will be part of things, and your daughter will get a much better feel for who will be there if she picks that school.</p>