<p>Sikorsky, I can understand why it would be hard, in my way. He was very sick a few months ago and when I had to leave for work instead of staying home with him, it felt like I was not doing my job at all. He didn’t even really need me but it was how I felt. I guess we are just wired traditionally. I feel like my day job really interferes with what I feel is my REAL job. We won’t both work after the wedding if we don’t have to. I will be the one at home, even though I am college educated and he is not. I would probably be able to out-earn him eventually, but that is not what is important to us-- we both need to feel fulfilled. He needs to work and I need time to do the things that are important to me.</p>