<p>Your parents are probably terrified that you are leaving and they can’t control your movement. Don’t try to change them now, it will be hopeless. But look towards fall and know you will have the freedom of American college students- which is really total freedom. </p>
<p>Help your parents adjust to this new situation by calling or textng them to let them know you are safe. On campus, attend any safety presentations given to freshmen. Learn about the security systems–blue light phones on campus, locking dorm rooms, safe routes in town. </p>
<p>Avoid over-drinking if you choose to imbibe. The largest risks to freshmen women are out of control , drunk males, so stay in groups of other women at such gatherings, or better yet, avoid the parties altogether or until you are 21.
There are plenty of positive, engaging activities on campus which do not include alcohol. Seek those out and you will find friends to share meaningful experiences. </p>