<p>I don’t want to make assumptions but do you live in a community with other Afghanis who have assimilated to America for a longer period? If you are muslim, does your mosque have families from many countries? The ones in my community are extremely diverse. Are there families who have successfully sent daughters to college? Are there teachers/leaders in your community/mosque who can understand both yours and your parents situation and speak to calm and assure them?</p>