We redid the kitchen in the house we bought a few years ago (time flies). Old house had honey oak cabinets and white appliances- over 20 years ago. Chose white because I also did not want the more industrial seeming steel appearance and smudges.
This house came with mismatched appliances but an excellent stainless steel stove and microwave. Black dishwasher, that bisque/cream refrigerator. Chose honey spice maple cabinets (sure better than all that PINK laminate cupboards and cabinets- plus all of the other pink in the house). When I decided to replace appliances I disliked I went with stainless steel in the kitchen for two reason. One- to match the stove. Two- the refrigerators I like only come in stainless steel.
I dislike black appliances- prefer stainless because black darkens the mood. The stainless works just fine. I do have different brands- chose according to the brand that best fit for the appliance. No need to be matchy-matchy, much better to be happy with the function of each. Put white in the laundry room- small space and lighter/brighter best.
If you may sell within a few years the go-to color for younger buyers seems to be stainless. If you want to be up-to-date go with the stainless. If you like white- go for it. You have to live with it daily. Black is depressing.