Well of course they don’t help- you’re not taking them!
Anti-depressants can take a long time to work. They’re not like antibiotics where you’re feeling better in a few days. That’s just not how it works.
I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder nearly ten years ago and have been on and off meds ever since. The meds can be a lifesaver (they certainly were for me), but they only work if you take them.
No- you can call their office and tell them about your concerns and your psychiatrist can switch your meds if need be.
You have been getting the same advice on here for months and months. I’m not sure what else you want us to say.