Co-ed bathroom in dorms - am I crazy and how can I find out details from schools on our list?

I agree that it’s not a small thing to have to go to a bathroom in another dorm and that the voting system used in the case of the student in the other thread wasn’t fair, but I have to wonder this- When scores of people have given testimony on recent threads to the fact that their dorms had coed bathrooms and it really wasn’t a problem and we have to go back 6 years to find a thread where a single person said it was, does it not say something about the chances that OP’s kid would find coed bathrooms to be…not a problem?