I have friends who had a big house in NJ. NJ is expensive with taxes. They didn’t really want their DD to end up in Nj because of the expense. When she went off to college, they sold the house and moved to Colorado in the spring of her freshman year. They wanted to be able to ski etc while they were still able to (they are a little bit older parents). They were going to wait til see where she ended up after college. They realize that living at 8000 feet is not for them…the current plan is that the DD will be working out side of Pittsburgh, but they are looking at New Hampshire