Enjoying small new accomplishments in retirement
musicmom
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I love reading in the Parent Cafe but haven't posted much.
I retired this past July after 41 years in healthcare.
Loved LOVED my job for many years and then didnt the last few. Changing workplace, changing me. DH had two years of serious illness that fortunately has been teated successfully.
It was clearly time.
We're savers, NOT wealthy but should be fine.
I'm a planner by nature. Probably my science brain and had compiled a bunch of activities to pursue.
What I'm finding so interesting is how much I'm enjoying the small unexpected successes that came out of nowhere.
In previous life, I killed every plant, bush or tree I touched. Now I've rooted sticks my friends have donated, buy flowers on Etsy, trained my Clematis to climb my mailbox post I visit my flower beds every morning with my coffee in hand. I even like weeding.
We downsized to a tiny 2BR house in a lake community.
Good bones, needs some TLC.
The second tiny bath was missing about 10 trim tiles.
Spent hours and hours scouting for a color match of the 1940ish pale pink pieces, online and in stores
DH was incredulous when I told him I was going to install the missing tile myself.
A stop at home depot for supplies and several YouTube videos later, the tile is cemented and grouted. Not perfect but pretty darn good.
We bought two small kyacks without ever having kyacked before. Im sure we were a sight for the neighbors to see at first. But we improved quickly and had a blast
all summer.
Had a few ladies from the old neighborhood to lunch and to see the new house.
I'm a seriously not a chef.
Went online and pulled a few recipes for healthy summer salads and sides and fancy cocktails.
Got lots of compliments that sounded sincere on everything!
Cant wait to find more things I might actually be good at!
Anyone else want to share?
Hopefully you wont mind if i pilfer some more ideas to try.
28 replies I retired this past July after 41 years in healthcare.
Loved LOVED my job for many years and then didnt the last few. Changing workplace, changing me. DH had two years of serious illness that fortunately has been teated successfully.
It was clearly time.
We're savers, NOT wealthy but should be fine.
I'm a planner by nature. Probably my science brain and had compiled a bunch of activities to pursue.
What I'm finding so interesting is how much I'm enjoying the small unexpected successes that came out of nowhere.
In previous life, I killed every plant, bush or tree I touched. Now I've rooted sticks my friends have donated, buy flowers on Etsy, trained my Clematis to climb my mailbox post I visit my flower beds every morning with my coffee in hand. I even like weeding.
We downsized to a tiny 2BR house in a lake community.
Good bones, needs some TLC.
The second tiny bath was missing about 10 trim tiles.
Spent hours and hours scouting for a color match of the 1940ish pale pink pieces, online and in stores
DH was incredulous when I told him I was going to install the missing tile myself.
A stop at home depot for supplies and several YouTube videos later, the tile is cemented and grouted. Not perfect but pretty darn good.
We bought two small kyacks without ever having kyacked before. Im sure we were a sight for the neighbors to see at first. But we improved quickly and had a blast
all summer.
Had a few ladies from the old neighborhood to lunch and to see the new house.
I'm a seriously not a chef.
Went online and pulled a few recipes for healthy summer salads and sides and fancy cocktails.
Got lots of compliments that sounded sincere on everything!
Cant wait to find more things I might actually be good at!
Anyone else want to share?
Hopefully you wont mind if i pilfer some more ideas to try.
Replies to: Enjoying small new accomplishments in retirement
I bought a disaster of a fixer a couple of years ago and because people in the trades are either absent or don’t want to do restoration work, I have been forced to learn how to do a lot! Most ‘how to’ information out there is really lacking. You have to watch 10 different YouTube videos before you have all of the key info, but, I leaned how to restore plaster, I replumbed and upgraded the electric system myself. I also figured out how to get some old radiators working. I have found the work dirty and often frustrating, but incredibly rewarding.
I discovered a huge bias against females among our city’s building inspectors. I started telling them that ‘my husband’ did the work, and suddenly things started passing with no issues and they often complimented ‘his’ work. That has been particularly satisfying to me. Cannot WAIT until final inspection so I can tell them who really did the work!
I have repaired stucco, repaired asphalt, refinished the kitchen cabinets, repaired drywall, painted repairs, and landscaped. And repaired a freezer. All with videos on the internet.
I started an Instagram account and Snapchat daily with D’s. We got a puppy one month into retirement and go camping and walk 4 miles a day with her now. Joined meetup and am for the first time reading books for fun instead of for medicine knowledge for a book club.
I’m always open to listening to new ideas. ‘Bored’ is not in my vocabulary.
I’m still learning how to post things on our website. It’s a process. I need to start sending out a newsletter too. I did it for awhile but need to relearn.
So far, H does most of the home maintenance but I surprise both of us by being the one who spots what we need at the home improvement and hardware stores.
Thanks @musicmom !
Gardening and baking have been my two big turn arounds. I’m loving spending time in my garden - we have a fairly prolific veggie and herb garden that is still going strong, and I’ve added a dozen trees and shrubs, two dozen perennials, and 70 bulbs that I’m hoping will bloom in the spring. I also did an inexpensive clean up of my yucky cement patio that actually looks beautiful; and repainted a rusty metal that now is gorgeous and a “destination” in the garden. My next project is a mural on a defunct, outdoor, metal exhaust hanging over the patio.
I’ve also been baking desserts and baguettes from scratch. Lots of fun successes.
Years ago I inherited several boxes of beads -- both plastic and 1960s era Swarovski crystal -- from a "crafty" great aunt. They've been sitting in my basement. I've pulled them out and am researching and experimenting with making jewelry, ornaments, beaded bags, etc. I'm a crafter at heart myself so it's been fun. I feel no pressure and have undone a number of things after spending an hour or two on them. Ideal goal is to build a stockpile to sell at craft fairs after real retirement.
I also bought a set of round plastic knitting looms at a thrift store and have made one scarf and am working on a second. The yarn clearance rack at Michael's is my go to spot. Sometime I can use a 50% off coupon too.
I knew I would find alot of talented DIY folks here.
The Cafe posters never disappoint.
Love the varied list of specialties so far. Quite inspiring.
Happy to see that there are other women that find house repair/remodeling "fun". Or at least rewarding and ultimately easier and cheaper than finding a pro to do it.
@busyparent, the 19 weeks will fly by.
Yes, please, all SAHM and "almost" retirees are welcome to jump in.
It's just that I would have had nothing to post here BEFORE I retired. It had been one foot in front of another for a long time while still working.
My successes then were occassionally cleaning house, grocery shopping, paying bills, etc
Congrats to everyone filling their days with more enriching activities!
I'm mostly still shopping online but now can search out coupons or comparison shop more.
I love Rakuten. (no connection)
Retirement is probably a couple years away for me - and even then I think I want to work part time....BUT I feel I planted the seeds for retirement activities when our last child was in high school in prep for all kids being out of the house (avoiding that word I hate - "empty" nest).
So I appreciate reading this thread for "hope" that retirement can be a good thing - admittedly, my mind isn't "there" in seeing that other word I kind of hate "retirement" as being a good thing.
Kudos to everyone who continues to grow, change and especially do good in the world.
I'm artsy, and kind of searching for my "medium" to get more serious about once daughter leaves for college in under two years. Right now I paint scenic backdrops/sets for local school theater productions as a volunteer. I do one or two musicals per years....usually spend a couple of months on each one. Have loved doing it, but I've kind of lost some of the creative magic that drove me. And it's physically demanding at age 62 to climb up and down the ladder umpteen times per day, ragging textures and shadows to ancient trees or castle walls fifteen feet up while balancing a paint can! The part I dread is the dismantling/painting over of the scenes I spent so many hours to create. But I love being part of a bigger project and seeing the kids' excitment. I don't know ot any other art project would seem as compelling to me. I like to think of trying to do some plein air painting (a la Monet
If I never return to work, we'll be okay financially - it's not the difference between being rich & being poor. I just think I still want to work at some point in the next few years. We'll see.
In the meantime, I am decompressing from a thoroughly overwhelming job. I work out and walk daily, and I do a couple things around the house each day. I have been reading, doing crosswords and other newspaper puzzles, and catching up on sleep ... yes, I have been napping, and I am not ashamed to admit it. I have been cooking dinner & eating it at a normal dinner hour. I am no longer out of the house early/home late.
Thanks! I think you're seeing me
well......its like I almost cant
contain my glee over my
small self discoveries!
I am amazed at some of the major plans of some posters. Maybe I'll get into some more challenging projects down the road.
No more paid employment for me though. My poor brain is sucked dry and I wouldn't have the patience to be a civil employee at this stage.
I'm not sure exactly what data analytics is but it sounds interesting, and challenging.
Good for you. @kelsmom.
I read a LOT. I belong to two book clubs. I belong to the League of Women Voters. It's actually nice to just accomplish day to day chores without resenting using up a "day off" to do so. I've enjoyed getting more organized, too.