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When did/do you find out who your roommate is?

vwlizardvwlizard 311 replies32 postsRegistered User Member
DS doesn't get roommate information until he gets to campus. Is this how all schools do it for first-year students? Just wondering if it was the norm.
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  • skieuropeskieurope 38455 replies6720 postsSuper Moderator Super Moderator
    edited July 20
    Is this how all schools do it for first-year students?
    Not all, no. While some schools let students know in the beginning of August, at many others, they don't find out until they get to campus.
    edited July 20
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  • dramakid2dramakid2 233 replies3 postsRegistered User Junior Member
    My son didn’t find out who his roommates were until he got to school. Although since he was placed in a triple, the school did email us about 2 weeks in advance to let us know he would be living in a triple.
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  • Golfgr8Golfgr8 987 replies17 postsRegistered User Senior Member
    Like @dramakid2 stated above, golfkiddo did not find out @ roommate until arriving on campus and moving into the dorm. A few years ago, the school decided it was best to wait until move in day to reveal dorm room assignments and roommates for Freshman. Older students new to school find out in late July or early August. Bon Chance🙏
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  • RedLionessRedLioness 64 replies0 postsRegistered User Junior Member
    Personal understanding: my school reveals roommates in mid to late August for incoming 9th graders
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  • CavsFan2003CavsFan2003 890 replies70 postsRegistered User Member
    Depends on the school, like others have said. At Choate, you don't learn until move-in day if you're a new student.
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  • RedLionessRedLioness 64 replies0 postsRegistered User Junior Member
    That must be terrible! I have a hard enough time waiting until mid-August. Waiting till September would be torture!
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  • skieuropeskieurope 38455 replies6720 postsSuper Moderator Super Moderator
    edited August 8
    That must be terrible! I have a hard enough time waiting until mid-August. Waiting till September would be torture!
    In the grand scheme of things you need to wait for in life - SAT scores, college decisions, Christmas, turning 21 - waiting 2 weeks to find out the name of ones roommate should be pretty low on that totem pole.
    edited August 8
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  • RedLionessRedLioness 64 replies0 postsRegistered User Junior Member
    @skieurope not really, with the exception of college decisions. Think about it - how long are SAT scores going to matter? Until the application cycle is over - max two years. How long does Christmas matter? A day at most (and less for some people who don't celebrate Christmas at all). How long does turning 21 matter? I don't even know if that matters unless you want to drink.

    But your roommate? That's your first relationship at a new school you will hopefully be at for 4 years. At my school, you don't switch dorms so they'll be in your dorm all 4 years. That matters at least for a year, at most for all 4.

    At any rate, I'm not terribly patient since I'm so excited to start school. Any news is good news at this point and gets me all riled up! The curiosity of which dorm I'll be in and who my roommate is going to be is just killing me! (Especially since I'm waiting to be able to talk to her before I buy anything like a rug or other shared dorm commodities)
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  • vwlizardvwlizard 311 replies32 postsRegistered User Member
    I'm wondering if schools delay the decision to cut down on helicopter parenting and social media searchers.
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  • skieuropeskieurope 38455 replies6720 postsSuper Moderator Super Moderator
    (Especially since I'm waiting to be able to talk to her before I buy anything like a rug or other shared dorm commodities)
    As I've said many many times on this site, unless the dorm room is a cookie cutter, which is not the case for many BS dorms, it's folly to buy stuff before seeing the space.

    In regards to waiting the 2 weeks having a huge impact on a 4 year BS experience, we'll have to agree to disagree. It is what it is.
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  • RedLionessRedLioness 64 replies0 postsRegistered User Junior Member
    also a true and valid point, and something I've considered after reading through the recent threads. Since my parents might be staying in the area a few days, we might just go shopping for dorm furnishings afterwards. I'll see how it pans out.

    Alright, that's fair.
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  • RedLionessRedLioness 64 replies0 postsRegistered User Junior Member
    Exeter dorm hall information is out and will be out officially on August 23rd
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