<p>I’m glad it all worked out for you. Personally, I wouldn’t be comfortable having my 14 year old son living in a dorm with 18-21 year olds. There is a time and place for everything. According to your description, your son has managed an active social life to complement his academic career. My hope is that it doesn’t all come crashing in on him at a later date. Rarely does rushing through “normal” stages of development turn out well. Good luck to your son and may he have a wonderful future ahead.</p>