<p>hi guys,</p>
<p>What great responses! I need some time to digest all you said!</p>
<p>Regarding S and being Asian… he will be OK in a predominantly white environment. Although we live in a Hispanic community, he goes to a church that is predominantly white and his school is 70% white (he goes to a public charter school in a neighboring town). </p>
<p>I don’t think S will have a problem if he went to a college that attracted mostly affluent kids. We live a simple lifestyle but we are not poor by any means. Our kids often say that we don’t have such and such like other families, but that is our choice. However, if the whole college culture is about being affluent, then perhaps he won’t fit in cuz that’s not how we raised him. Hope I am saying this right. No offense to anyone.</p>
<p>thanks again for all the help. My head is spinning…</p>