<p>I think you mean simple random sample.</p>
<p>Height and build…yeah…first thing I notice.</p>
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I’m sure someone who is ugly would only go up to like a 6 or something. A 7.5 would still be a pretty confident rating even if it’s not true, so I think the OP is still above average looking.</p>
<p>But that’s besides the point. Oh wait, it is. If you’re above average looking, guys will take notice, so you shouldn’t have a problem.</p>
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<p>are you sure about that? </p>
<p>and you say you have a lot of guy friends too? </p>
<p>I’m not questioning whether you are a 7.5 or not but it just doesn’t make sense that none of your guy friends haven’t tried hitting on you already. maybe they are intimidated by your beauty.</p>
<p>Well… they must be intimidated by something. Or maybe you’re one of those people with some big physical bubble? I’ve met some people like that who’re… not touchy/must not touch/etc.</p>
<p>how do i get them to NOT BE INTIMIDATED by me?</p>
<p>Be overtly sexual with them. Always smile and initiate physical contact. Opening your mouth may put a damper on your efforts.</p>
<p>hth.</p>
<p>If you aren’t fat, a guy will hit on you.</p>
<p>and if u are, a fat guy will</p>
<p>Hey AJM, I think sometimes guys (even maybe the “best” guys) need some encouragement from you. They may fear rejection or maybe they don’t want to disrespect you and ruin your friendship. Flirt a little!</p>
<p>Here’s a piece of advice. Never. Ever. Ever. Ever. Ever. Read. Cosmo. My girlfriend did and started talking about it, and whoever wrote that crap about “what guys want” must be functionally ■■■■■■■■, or must always date the 1% of guys that like stuff like that.</p>
<p>Stuff like what? Can you give us examples? :D</p>
<p>I’ve blocked most of it from my memory but I seem to remember them saying something about the girl putting her finger somewhere a finger should not go…</p>
<p>Actually sometimes stuff in that magazine does work really well :D</p>
<p>AJM, Just be confident and be yourself. If you really like a guy, show him that you’re interested. </p>
<p>Don’t force yourself to be “overtly sexual” if you don’t want to be. First of all, there is more than one kind of “sexy”. To a certain extent, our culture has limited the concept of “sexy” to something along the lines of ranch culture. Defining sexuality is important (in terms of marketing) because it means that you can sell it (breast implants, pole dancing classes, you name it). Guys will hook up with girls who look like soft-core porn stars, but they will be in relationships with girls who are much more down to earth and real. You don’t need to conform if that’s not who you are. Find your own version of “sexy” and be confident. </p>
<p>I think the sexiest thing in the world would be to have a guy like you for who you really are. If you’re looking for that kind of relationship, don’t force yourself to be something you’re not. Trust me, you want him to be a bit intimidated - that way you’ll have his respect. If you don’t want to be intimidating, act like a doormat and see what kinds of relationships you end up in.</p>
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^This is exactly the type of guy you want to avoid in a serious relationship! If you want somebody who treats you like crap, take all of firecracker’s advice. I was talking to a girl from my office, and she said that her friends never tell guys that they are in law school because then they won’t get dates (they usually say that they are nurses, because apparently it’s “hot”). I think this is BS. Both genders need a wakeup call. Girls shouldn’t lie or change just because it’s “sexy”, and guys who are turned off (wait - intimidated) by intelligence should grow up and learn to respect women. /end rant</p>
<p>don’t get into a serious relationship with your first bf. fyi.</p>
<p>Opening your mouth doesn’t equate to intelligence.</p>
<p>hth.</p>
<p>Way to be, cowgirlatheart! :D</p>
<p>^Thanks ;)</p>
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<p>Of course it doesn’t - you just reminded me of my recent conversation with my coworker. However, that still doesn’t mean we should need to be quiet, demure, and dare I say obedient just for guys like you.</p>
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